Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts

July 04, 2026

Good Dating Advice

I have this guy popping up in my feed these days; I don't agree with everything he says, but this video is quite accurate. My only quibble relates to timelines. When it comes to planning things, commitment, and rescheduling, these may occur more at the start as two people get to know one another. Events may clash etc. But on the personal level, lack of respect, denying your status within the group and lack of tactile communication are huge red flags in my opinion. 

This advice is aimed at men, but you can reverse it and much of it is advice that can be given to women as well. Basically, don't live in a dream world.

July 31, 2018

Banks These Days

Banks are being very short-sighted these days. Do they not understand banks role in society? Put simply, their role is to act as a conduit for doing business. Two pillars form the backbone of this role, and that is trust and relationships.

So what do banks do? They destroy trust and ignore relationships. What I'm talking about is the trend to move on-line, and to close branches. And branches that remain are becoming automated. What the bank execs are doing is making the mistake of positioning money as a generic product. If you've built relationships over someone's whole life, why would you then turn around and say to that person, in effect, go away and deal with a robot?  It's barmy.

Any bank that takes the time to put the human touch back in, will be quids in I reckon (note the pun, hah).